ENOUGH!!

[pt_tangles]

The next person who asks me "When are you going to finally get married?" gets poked in the eye with a sharp stick (and their invitation to said wedding gets fed to the cat!)! I do not need to get married just for the sake of being married. It isn't like a really expensive party is going to change my day to day life (besides costing me upwards of $400 to change my ID). I am not going to compromise on the kind of wedding I want because I am in no rush (and right now I am poor). It isn't like Wintersdark is going anywhere.

Also, for all those in my circle of family and friends who seem to think that I am wasting my potential by working part time in a grocery store rather than going back to college and getting a better job, you are right. If I really wanted it, I could get a second job and go to school at night. If I really wanted it, I could make it happen. But you know what? I am not interested in losing the precious little time I get to spend with my fiance. I sometimes go days without seeing him as it is. There are things in my life that are more important than college right now.

And I'll have you all know that I design graphics and webpages, I am in the middle of launching a magazine, I run a forum for teen Pagans, and I have written articles that have been published all over the web. Just because my paycheck happens to be signed by Superstore doesn't mean that I am wasting my life. I AM NOT MY JOB!!

This rant brought to you by nagging relatives and people who don't really know me anymore, but seem to figure that they have a right to tell me how to live my life >_<

--Phae

Comments

[pjvj.livejournal.com]

**applause**

Go get 'em, sugar!

[pt_tangles]

Thanks ... there just comes a point when I can't listen to people tell me that I 'am too smart for that' anymore. Gotta hate being too smart to find your own happiness :oP

--Phae

[pjvj.livejournal.com]

lmao. Damn you, Phae! Wanting to be happy and all!

[pt_tangles]

How dare I?? LOL

--Phae

[blackthornglade.livejournal.com]

Ummm... *hug* ? :)

[pt_tangles]

Thanks ... I figure I will save my rant and email it to friends and reletives who piss me off ~_^

--Phae

[firefly124.livejournal.com]

Good for you! {{{{{{Phae}}}}}}

[pt_tangles]

Thanks {{{Firefly}}}

--Phae

[estaratshirai.livejournal.com]

So...when are you going to get married? *ducks*

[pt_tangles]

Hold still so I can poke you! ~_^

--Phae

[gwyddon.livejournal.com]

I know your pain. People all the time ask me and Preston when we're "going to start a family". Last person who asked that almost got kicked in the nuts. We've been together ten years. Buy a clue already, people. :D

[pt_tangles]

I get that one too ... but more people want us to get married (Wintersdark's mom is always going on about how we are 'living in sin'). Bleh.

--Phae

[gwyddon.livejournal.com]

always going on about how we are 'living in sin'

I'm not sure which is worse to hear someone going on about, honestly. :( {{{HUGS}}}

[pt_tangles]

Well, I am sure I won't have to choose. Once we do get married, they will switch to the kids one :oP

--Phae