>>>The less time I spend online, the more I realize that I wasn't meant to be in a lot of the moulds I have tried to cram myself into. I was always just meant to be me. And no one else's approval is required.<<<

I've found this to be the case too. It seems like when all you have are words, it's easy to get caught up in the labels we choose for ourselves. Screw the molds and labels, sometimes it feels good to just *be*. No explanations or justifications required.